“If you're getting a divorce, you probably don't spend a lot of time thinking about how it will impact your retirement -- but it's a valid concern.”  The full article on the impact of divorce on retirement accounts and planning can be found here:  http://host.madison.com/business/investment/markets-and-stocks/can-divorce-destroy-your-retirement/article_b622eef2-edd6-58cb-90fa-5ea11c9e682d.html

“Divorce lawyers are well aware of the grab bag of dirty tricks spouses inflict on each other. My top five dirtiest divorce tricks are:https://lawdiva.wordpress.com/2017/05/28/5-of-the-dirtiest-divorce-tricks-2/”

“Dad and I still sometimes disagree.  We’re different people. You know better than anyone, because you live with both of us.  Our styles are different. We like to do different things. We discipline you differently.  Dad interacts with Stephanie differently than I interact with Gabe. But we agree on the most important thing:  you. We agree to co-parent because it is what’s best for you.” For the full article, please click here:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/do-you-love-your-kid-more-than-you-hate-your-ex_us_58fe01fde4b0f02c3870ec7f

“Credit card companies are not bound by divorce decrees, so they can pursue either spouse if credit card debt is not paid by the spouse who agreed to do so in a separation agreement.  The contractually bound spouse may fail to pay for many reasons, including bankruptcy. When such failure occurs, credit card companies may legally pursue the other spouse for the debt (plus interest and penalties).” The full article can be found here:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/divorce-and-credit-card-debt_us_58e28f26e4b09deecf0e18bc

"Divorce is the largest financial transaction of your life, because every part is moving, from car insurance to credit reports to your ability to get financing". For the full article, please click here:http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/ct-divorce-finances-20170213-story.html

“The breakup may be painful, but most kids adjust well over time.”  For the full article, please click here:  https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-divorce-bad-for-children/

How should you navigate a divorce or paternity process if you suspect your spouse is a narcissist? This article provides excellent tips for co-parenting with a narcissist. The articles tips are manageable and there is lots of good advice for smoothly navigating post-divorce or post-paternity conflicts. Please see the full Huffington Post article at: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/6-things-to-know-if-youre-parenting-with-a-narcissist_us_55bbc28de4b0d4f33a02c401